There’s ego wrapped up in being The Decider
The shift is harder than it sounds. There’s comfort in control. There’s concern others won’t decide as well as you—and they won’t at first. That’s the point of transfer and practice. Letting go of being the hero is the hardest part of building capability.
Take Action: Notice your resistance today when someone makes a choice differently than you would have. Just observe it. You can’t change what you don’t recognize.